Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Adams Update
Jeff has been amazing (as usual) and has done anything and everything in order for me to rest and heal. For those that know me it has been a little hard for me to sit and watch others do things in my house and for my kiddos! I have of course been helping out (as much as they have let me).
Ty has been wonderful. He is at a great age. He likes his sister and wants to know where she is and help her when she is crying, but he also has other things that he feels that he needs to do (play, make noise, help clean & cook, etc.) He is extremely busy and that has added to the stress of taking care of Kate.
My mom always told me that the more children you have the less time you have to journal, keep notes, take pictures and create memory books. I had a hard enough time with Ty so I was positive I couldn't do WORSE with Kate. Poor thing...we have taken a fourth of the pictures that we did with Ty, I haven't even thought about working in her Baby Book, and I feel accomplished to jot down some fun things from each day! I guess she may end up like me, the last of three, with a baby book: A name simply written in the front and then a dozen envelopes, cut out newspaper articles, grade school work, and favorite pictures shoved in the front. I know my mom didn't love me less...just didn't have the time for the details! I now understand. But, do all moms have the guilt with the second and third child, that they aren't getting the best of them as the first child did? Will I always have it? Will I continually worry that Kate will feel like I don't love her as much or will she understand?
I never set Ty down, I never thought to do anything but entertain and give ALL of my attention to Ty. Now, with Kate I am giving time to Ty, cleaning, cooking, working, blogging, etc. Will she know I didn't hold her as much? Will she know that I didn't want to sit in the floor for hours on end, each day and just watch her play? Will she know that I didn't sing to her 40 songs a day like her brother? Or will it just be something I have to deal with? Where to find the balance between giving both of your kids the same or equal? Will it ever feel equal or fair?
Kate is a wonderful baby. She sleeps great, eats great, and has a sweet temperament, except when she is showing a little bit of her temper. She already has a very clear picture of what she wants you to do to make her happy. Funny how they come with huge personalities at birth! She will take a pacifier but doesn't really care for it...she would rather suck her thumb (which she finally found for the first time today, you would have thought she was in HEAVEN). We are trying hard to detract her from her thumb I have heard that is harder to break a child from than a pacifier. We were lucky with Ty, he didn't want either. He just had his snuggly.
Here are a few pictures from our hospital stay and our first weeks at home. We will have more later....I am promising myself to do better at taking more pictures and videos of her!
We can't thank everyone enough for the calls, visits, encouragement, prayers and much more that you have offered. We definitely need the prayers to keep on rolling in! We feel so amazingly blessed.
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Thursday, November 13, 2008
She's Here!
There's the Belly! I know....HUGE! It's all worth it though!
Almost Parents of TWO...I can't believe it. Wasn't I just 21?
Here she is...See the cheeks?
They fed her as soon as she was in the nursery, because she was such a big baby and they were worried about her blood sugar levels. She was glad to oblige and slurp down a bottle! That's my girl!
Daddy's Little Girl...Already!
First time seeing Mommy.
Look at this sweet "Bow" Cap the nurse made for her. Too cute!
First time for Big Brother to see Kate. He wasn't too sure.
Mommy, Ty and Kate
This one makes me cry everytime I look at it!
More will be coming!
Monday, August 11, 2008
Doin' ????
Mommy Doin'?
Daddy Doin'?
Mocha Doin'?
Doin' Mommy?
Doin' Daddy?
Doin' Ty?
Hundreds of times a day we answer the simple question, Doin'? Sometimes he asks the "Doin'" question 15 times in a fifteen minute drive to Target...all the time receiving the SAME ANSWER! Jeff and I have learned that it is easier to laugh at the question than anything.
So today...
We are rushing home from Mrs. Debbie's because Ty didn't want to leave (all of his friends had returned from summer break and they where having a blast playing together and making a huge ruckus). We had to rush because Adams Exterminating was to be at our house at 3:30-4:00 to spray for a plethora of spiders that have invaded our humble home! Spider webs drive me CRAZY, by the way. So, after many pleas and moans my sweet husband called and made an appointment for them to spray INSIDE, not just outside.
In the car, I am talking with Ty and letting him know that the Exterminator will be at the house very shortly. Of course Exterminator doesn't register with Ty...so I say...The BUG MAN will be at our house and we need to get home quickly.
We arrive and the BUG MAN is already spraying the perimeter of the house for our normal outside pests. Ty automatically says, BUG MAN doin' Mommy? I answer..."Spraying for Bugs". We unload the car, enter the house, put away our things and all in a manner of minutes Ty has asked me 10 times, "BUG MAN doin' Mommy?" I reply..."Spraying for Bugs, Ty."
The BUG MAN then enters the house and commences to spraying the entire interior of the house...Ty then commences to following him from room to room, all the time asking, BUG MAN doin'? BUG MAN doin'? BUG MAN doin'? Now, mind you the inflection ranged from extremely curious to downright confused. After many, many, many responses of "Spraying for spiders, so we don't have to clean up anymore spider webs. Spraying for bugs so that bugs won't live in our house, they will stay outside...so on and so on.. He then would throw in a random, BUGS doin' Mommy? Mommy's reply = "Running for their lives, Ty".
I am absolutely positive that the BUG MAN probably did not appreciate being called the BUG MAN...but he heard it at least 100 times in the 20 minutes it took him to spray our house. The BUG MAN fascination didn't leave with the BUG MAN...it lingered into the cooking of dinner and even into our bath time! The replies changed...I'm sure the BUG MAN is eating Dinner too, Ty. I am sure the BUG MAN is watching TV, Ty!
Oh...the things your children say and do! And oh...the lessons we learn when we teach children titles. Yes, chalk that up to a lesson learned by Mommy! I will remember next time to just teach him the word EXTERMINATOR. Maybe saying that 100 times will be a little too daunting!
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Wrappin' Up Summer
So here are some of Ty's favorite things to do right now...things that we want to remember FOREVER! First, he is really into singing. He will sing the entire way to Mrs. Debbie's and the entire way home. He sings on his way to church and while playing. Now we have added singing to the tub...nothing better than a few Tub Tunes!
Here is the Tub Tunes Live and in Action! We purchased a book called Dooby Dooby Moo, about singing cows. That is why he and I are singing the Doobies!
More Tub Tunes...in a true rocker fashion...he is in charge of when to start the solo and when to stop!
More Silly Faces!
Makin' Muffins (his favorite) and some Quiche! We think he will be an engineer/chef who has an acute sense of weather and sings in his spare time.
We have had a wonderful break together, and I am cherishing all those fun moments with Ty! I hate that I won't be able to remember them all, but know that the best ones will always replay themselves over and over in my mind, and if they don't I will have video and pictures to keep them alive.
We are so looking forward to our new bundle, yet still wondering if we are crazy to have TWO children. We can't imagine being any happier, laughing any more or being any more tired...but I am sure that God will bless us with all those in due time!
Be looking for the new bedding (which should be here Monday) and the update on decorating the new babies' room. I haven't gotten the GIRLIE bug yet, but know that it will come when I start decorating.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Day #2 in Florida
The whole family playing in the pool! Pop is in the green shirt, Nonna is sitting on the side of the pool, Mommy is sitting in the water, Aunt De is standing and cousing Clayton is the tannest person in the picture! Which...Ty loves cousin Clayton! They are the yin and the yang, the dark and the light, pure opposites, and oh such a fun pair to watch play together.
Here is Ty with his favorite pool toy...the AAAAIGATOR! He was coming to CHOMP Mommy!
He was saying.."Duh...Nuh...Duh...Nuh..." just like the jaws movie! Too Funny!
Chomping Mommy!
Trying to use the AAAAIGATOR as a step to get a ride on Mommy's back!
We went to Reggae J's in Panama Commons (a local strip of restaunts and shops, a lot like Southlake Square with a Florida flare) for a yummy seafood dinner and had ice cream at a local shop (to die for). The Panama Commons Shopping area was a blast. But the best thing about the
commons was the Train Ride! Ty loves trains and there was this little train that rode around the shopping center filled with laughing children. We asked Ty if he wanted to ride and of course he couldn't say no! He was thrilled.
Here is the shiny engine...TOO COOL!
Ty with Daddy and all the cousins...can you tell how excited he was?
The entire cousin clan!
Are we leaving yet?
We're Off!
Jeff said that he was giddy for the entire 10 minute ride. He waved at every passer by and said "Hello Ladies" to a few groups of girls and women. Clayton taught him to say "What's Up" and he parroted that saying quiet a few times on the ride as well! Here are a few videos of the train ride!
All Aboard! They are off! Watch how madly Ty is waving at the crowd.
Ahhhh! It's over! Ty said, "Gan, Gan" to let us know he wanted to go again!
Tune in for Day #3 and our Adventure back to Texas!
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Day #1 at Panama City
1:30 Stop #2 somewhere in Louisiana for Restroom Breaks ONLY! Ty woke up and was
All sunscreened and ready to head to the BEACH!
Ty's first look and feel of the OCEAN! Pop and Cayleigh join Ty and Daddy!
He's Got a GRIP! He wasn't too sure about those big waves!
He loved playing in the sand! Here he is starting on a sandcastle!
Just the Family on the Beach!
I think I have sand somewhere...very uncomfortable.
Chillin' with Mommy! I wouldn't go near the water without Mom or Dad!
Down for a THREE hour nap after all that beach time!
Off on our PIRATE ADVENTURE....ARRGGGGHHHH! Posing with Daddy in front of the Sea Dragon Priate Ship! Ty was THRILLED, and has talked about this for days!
The whole family! Look at how HUGE that belly is! YIKES!
Ty getting PIRATE LESSONS! He wasn't so sure....he did get ARRGGGGHHH!
Getting' Ready for the Sword Fight!
I want my HAT back! I don't like this silly pirate hat.
On to Dolphin Spotting!
Mommy and Ty as the sun is setting.
Check back in for DAY #2 of our Florida Vacation!
We're BACK!
Summer School was a lot of work and kept me busy, as did our two year old whirlwind. He is constantly busy! SO MUCH FUN...but so EXHAUSTING. We have been playing every minute that we can..and I have been soaking up as much Mommy and Ty time as possible. I just keep thinking, "In a few short months it will NEVER be Ty and I again." I want to relish the last little moments of giving him the attention! So, to say the least, blogging was the last thing on my mind as I passed out on the couch and drooled my way into dreamland every night at 9:30!
We are now almost 6 months pregnant...which BLOWS my mind. With Ty I remember every movement, every milestone, and every thought was focused on being pregnant. Oh...I better put my seat belt on, I'M PREGNANT! Oh...I better not drink caffeine, I'M PREGNANT. Oh...I better not eat THAT, I'M PREGNANT! With this pregnancy I lay down at night and try to remember if I felt the baby move! I haven't had time to think longingly about bringing a newborn home, about hours of laying with a cuddle bug, or all the STUFF that I need to re-equipped my house with. I know that many of you already know but for those who don't...
HERE IS THE NEWS...We are having.....drum roll please!!!!
I know..we are in shock! What will I do with a girl? I have gotten really good at finding cute boy clothes, learning to wrestle, teaching him to tinkle on a tree outside and the list continues. Now I will have to learn how to add bows, ruffles, and all the things girls are made of! I can't wait. A little scared, but I can't wait!
We are sitting in Florida as I type enjoying the Sun, Sand and Seaweed! Yes...the beautiful Panama City beaches have been covered with seaweed, and the water is a lovely shade of green due to all the algae. The tropical storm Dolly isn't sitting well with the beach this week! We have still enjoyed playing for the last two days and I will be posting all of our fun a little later.
Off to the beach! Come back VERY soon for the VACATION UPDATES!